A Very Zen WeekendIn exactly one month Meg and I will be celebrating Christmas from Cambodia! Our hostel is booked in Phenom Phen, as well as our hotel on the beach where we will be spending New Years. We are going to pick up our passports this weekend, which have a new addition - our Vietnam visas. We have checked the weather trends (should be high 70s to low 80s!) and I personally am getting super excited! All that is left now is figuring out what sights to see! And for all you people counting down the weeks left in our year...when we return from Cambodia we will officially have 8 weeks of teaching left on our contracts. Woah.
Two weekends ago, we made a trip to a nearby store called Home Plus. It is kind of a cross between a Target and a department store - it has basically everything. Meg and I have gone there before to get various things for our apartment (ie a fan, cooking utensils, cleaning supplies) but we had never explored the food section in depth. We decided to take a crack at it and were pleasantly surprised! It was like being back in good old Cub Foods. We both managed to load up on some great finds - instant soup for lunches on cold days, goldfish crackers, precooked duck in a box (actually really, really tasty), and fresh asparagus to name a few. However, the reason I tell you this story is because of wh
Speaking of warm, we have finally gotten our first taste of winter here in Korea. The temperatures have started getting colder (and by this, I mean 30s. It still has yet to drop below low 30s here) and I have finally gotten out my winter coat and mittens. Still no snow in sight, but we have both come to realize that it feels a lot colder than it probably is due to the fact that we spend much more time outside walking places.
This past weekend Meg and I finally got ar
ing. We were able to take some nice pictures, and as always, it was refreshing to breathe in clean, mountain air. We made our way to Bubheungsa temple, which is 1,400 years old. When we arrived we were giving our training clothes, which we were required to wear all weekend. From here, we went into training. This is where our guide for the weekend, through the use of an English interpreter, told us what we would be doing all weekend and taught us how to do a proper full bow (which, in case you were wondering, has 9 steps and takes you from standing, to kneeling with your forehead on the ground, to standing again).From here we went out to a path in the woods for walking meditation. This involved walking in two straight lines, each person about a meter apart, at a pace of about 1 step per every 5 seconds. We were told to really concentrate on each individual step and the movement that is involved to take it. The purpose of the walk being that we often go through the motions of things, thus turning them into habitual activities, without ever thinking why we do it or what is involved in doing it. At the beginning I was doing fairly well focusing on this and enjoying myself - however, as we continued to walk at this very slow pace, I continued to get colder and colder. By the end of the walk my toes were numb and the training clothes weren't doing much in the way of keeping me warm either. In fact, this was just the beginning of being cold all weekend - apparently the monks don't really believe in heat. I am pretty sure I wore my winter jacket almost the entire weekend, both inside and outside. I also quickly learned to put multiple shirts and another pair of pants under my training clothes.
Next we experienced a traditional monk dinner calle
d balwoo gongyang (literally meaning bowl eating). We were given a stack of 4 bowls, which we set out on a place mat according to very specific instructions. The first step of the meal is to clean the bowls. Cleaning water is poured into the largest bowl. You swish it around, the dump it into the next bowl and swish it again. This process continues with the third and fourth bowl. Once the water is in the fourth bowl, it stays there until after the meal. Then each person is served rice in the largest bowl, and soup in the second largest. Side vegetables are passed around and these are put in the third bowl. The spirit of this kind of eating is equality, cleanliness, thrift, and togetherness, thus there was no talking during the meal and you were required to eat EVERYTHING you took. I was surprised by how weird it seemed to not talk while eating - it was also a lot harder to do than I thought it would be! After eating, we began the cleaning process. Each person received drinking water in their rice bowl. Using a yellow radish as basically a sponge, you clean all the residue from the boWe spent the rest of the night having tea with the monk while discussing dreams. It was interesting to hear the topic of dreams talked about from a

Buddhist stand point, although slightly hard to follow at times given that everything was going through a translator. The main focus of the discussion was that ours dreams are much easier to achieve when we make our dream specific and think in small steps. This actually gave me a lot to think about for the rest of the weekend, which ended up working out perfect as we had lots of meditation time on Sunday. We all wrote a dream down and put it in a dream pouch for use in a ceremony the next day. After our discussion with the monk, we all went to bed (at 10:30 pm) since we were being woken up at 3:00 am for morning meditation and chanting.
As you can imagine, 3 am came very quickly. We got up and bundled up against the cold, then trudged up a hill to the building where we would be participating in a morning service. There were two monks who did a ser
ies of chants and led us in a round of bows. From here, we went to another building to learn how to do Buddhist meditation. We were instructed on how to hold our legs, what our hand and head placement should be, and given suggestions on what to focus on. Once we were ready, we started our 25 minutes of meditation. As you can imagine this is rather difficult, especially at 4 am! After mediating, we had some free time until our 6 am breakfast time, so we all went to get a power nap in.
After breakfast we made lotus lanterns and then we started the process of making our Buddhist prayer beads. Similar to rosary beads, the string of beads is often used when chanting mantras. We made a strand of 108 beads because in traditional Buddhist thought people are said to have 108 afflictions. Each person has 6 senses - sight, sound, taste, smell, touch, and consciousness. Each of these senses can have three different reactions - positive, negative, or indifference, for a total of 18 feelings. Each feeling can then be either attached to pleasure or detached from pleasure, for a total of 36 passions. Each pleasure can then be manifested in our past life, present life, or future life, for a total of 108. The traditional practice is to do one bow (which as previously mentioned is nine steps) for every one bead that is strung. However, we were told
that it would be okay to do two or three beads to every bow...or as the end neared 5 or 6. My legs definitely started to feel the burn about half way through!Once we finished our beads, we took our dream pouches from the previous day and went back up the hill to one of the buildings we had been in that morning. A monk lead us through a series of chants and we all hung our pouches up in order to help our dreams come true. After eating lunch, and having already been awake for over 10 hours, it was time to put our normal clothes back on and head back to the city. Overall, it was quite an experience. I am very glad that I am not a Buddhist monk. I wish we had learned more about the ideology behind Buddhism and been able to talk with the monks more, but overall, it was a cool experience to be completely immersed in their lifestyle.
Over the weekend it finally happened - the Nemo class was hit with the swine flu. CIS has had some scattered cases of the flu here and there, but unlike Froebel, we have not shut down. Instead, the class with the sick student doesn't come to school for a couple of days. Anyway, on Saturday I got a call from Jenny (my supervisor) that one of my Nemos had tested positive. While I still have to report to school at the normal time and teach my afternoon classes, my Nemos aren't coming until Thursday. This means that during kindergarten Monday to Wednesday, I get prep time, which I couldn't be happier about! I was supposed to have conferences on Monday but those also got canceled. However, the school is taking an interesting approach to this case of the swine flu that they haven't with past classes. During conferences, we each pair up with our partner teacher and teach each others class (for example, when I have conferences the Nemos go to Bambi class and when Bambi class has conferences, they come to my room). Well, I had a mom concerned that combing our classes during conferences would make people sick, so it had been decided that this time around the Nemo and Bambi classes would not be combined. Instead, my aide, Christine, was going to teach the Nemos during my conferences and teach the Bambis during theirs. When I heard my Nemos weren't coming, I figured I was going to be put in charge of teaching the Bambis during conferences again since their conference day was Tuesday, and I had no students. However, I was informed that I was not going to be allowed to teach the Bambis since I will spread the flu to them. Umm...wait...the flu I don't have any symptoms of? So, Christine taught the Bambis (despite the fact that she is just as likely to have caught the flu from the Nemos as I am), I was told that I am required to wear a mask when my kids return on Thursday (although no other teachers had to when their kids caught it and neither Jenny or Christine are required to) but although there is fear of me being highly contagious (with, remember, no symptoms), I am still required to come into school all day and still need to be teaching my afternoon classes. This is a particularly stellar example of Korean logic for you.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone back home! Eat extra turkey, pie, cranberries, and all that other good stuff that we don't have access to over here for us!





